Help!

Ok, so I'm pretty new to this whole blogging thing. I had my page originally set up and had links to friends. Then I found out that no one was able to comment to my blog. So I changed my settings back to the original. Now I can't figure out how to add links to my friends' blogs back in. I want a cute background, but I can't get that to work either. Any suggestions?

OK--I tried it again. I got back to a layout that showed my links, but it won't allow comments again! UGH!

Just email me...